help me please

[bhargavi]

this is bhargavi. i'm basically a person who worry fr wat others think about me.all my works are gettttin succeded in dark rooms and when am asked to perform in crowd i fail.i don understand where i lack.am unable to concentrate on work when i find many learned peaple surrounded by me.am going nervous. i don know wat stops me?.my mind is too disturbed.wat could be the best solution at the time when am feeling uneasy or uncomfortable???..my mind is sticked to that issue and not at all deviated...all these irritataions making me to do loose talk and hence forth i seek ppl unncessarily and telling all my problems to them as if am going to get solution through them.i simply sont understand of how to take things light and getting too much worrid.

[Govind Joshi]

Hi Bhargavi !!
Please come to Prabhuji's (Shri Krishna's) sharan and everything will gradually be alright.
Thanks


Spiritual (http://firstlife360.blogspot.com/) Seeker

[Govindha]

Hi Bhargavi,

Surrender unto Lord Krishna! I m a devotee of Lord Krishna and ive been visiting this temple for quite sometime. My spiritual master preaches simple methods to receive the blessings of Lord Krishna. I invite you to visit our website www.prarthanamandhir.com.

Unto Krishna

[dasanudasa108]

Thanks for your qurry.

First of all please understand The Lord is the real boss and with out his wish nothing could be done. Everything is going on according to his will. We simply think that we are doing these/that. Its our ego. In fact it is our false ego. In reality every thing will be happening by its own by the material laws of energy. We are not responsible for both our good dids or bad. And all these are happing accoring to the Supereme will, we are just limited. Nothing is under our control. It is all happening just by the will of the Lord.

Lord is the real friend of every living entity. So why should we frear/nervous?

Just think/remeber the Supereme Lord before doing any work. Seek his blessing and star doing your work. Do not worry for any loss/profit ...sucess/fail. In fact every thing belongs to Lord. Nothing is ours. where is the question of sucess/fail ...loss/profit? So do your service and every service done in connection to the Lord is all sucess.

The fear of what happens to me itself kills us; But in reality nothing will happens to us.
Come to reality, see every thing at absolute. At that platform every thing is fearless and all sucess.

I wish you all sucess. Supereme Lord blesses you always.

just reply to dasanudasa108@yahoo.co.in

Hari Bol,

Regards,

Dasanudasa108
Mysore, ISKCON

this is bhargavi. i'm basically a person who worry fr wat others think about me.all my works are gettttin succeded in dark rooms and when am asked to perform in crowd i fail.i don understand where i lack.am unable to concentrate on work when i find many learned peaple surrounded by me.am going nervous. i don know wat stops me?.my mind is too disturbed.wat could be the best solution at the time when am feeling uneasy or uncomfortable???..my mind is sticked to that issue and not at all deviated...all these irritataions making me to do loose talk and hence forth i seek ppl unncessarily and telling all my problems to them as if am going to get solution through them.i simply sont understand of how to take things light and getting too much worrid.

[dattaswami]

this is bhargavi. i'm basically a person who worry fr wat others think about me.all my works are gettttin succeded in dark rooms and when am asked to perform in crowd i fail.i don understand where i lack.am unable to concentrate on work when i find many learned peaple surrounded by me.am going nervous. i don know wat stops me?.my mind is too disturbed.wat could be the best solution at the time when am feeling uneasy or uncomfortable???..my mind is sticked to that issue and not at all deviated...all these irritataions making me to do loose talk and hence forth i seek ppl unncessarily and telling all my problems to them as if am going to get solution through them.i simply sont understand of how to take things light and getting too much worrid.



Try to enjoy the worry
When worry is inevitable, enjoy it and be wise
Even continued happiness leads to mental worry
Thus happiness and worry must be alternative
If you are worried by the continued happiness
You are worried at the cost of the result of your good effort

Instead of this it is better to get worry at the cost of your sin
Let the sin give some trouble and then you worry out of it
In this way the result of the sin is spent and the not the result of good effort
The loss in your present worry may be compensated in the future
But the time lost in your past worry cannot be compensated
Because the life span of any human being is fixed

Your loss may be compensated by million times in the future
But even one second of your lost time can never be compensated
Therefore, understand this and think about the value of the time
This knowledge of the value of time is called as ‘Kala Janana’
Which means the knowledge of the future that you should know,

Which provides the possibility of the compensation of all the loss
Except the loss of time, therefore, time is the most precious.
You may waste anything that can be again procured in the future,
But never waste the time, which you can never compensate.

There are two ways to escape the mental worry in this world
The first way is by obtaining the peace, which is zero
The second way is by achieving the bliss, which is plus
Worry is minus, peace is zero and bliss is plus
To escape minus, either you should be in zero or in plus

Bliss can be obtained only from the Lord in this world
Since Veda says that the Lord alone is bliss “Anando Brahma”
Veda also says that the Lord alone can give you the bliss
“Esha Hyeva Anandayati” this is quite logical in fact
The water is alone cool and so it alone can give coolness
Whatever is said in the Vedas, it is always logical